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Career Counseling
Career Change: A Glittering Invitation To The Emotional Stalker
Below, you'll find extensive information on leading career counseling articles and other information to help you on your way to success.
Below, you'll find extensive information on leading career counseling articles and other information to help you on your way to success.
...... independence. The green stuff pays our bills, educates our kids, entertains us and gives us a sense that all is well with the world.
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Car' Mortgage' Health insurance' All of these are completely valid issues. But as long as you are still drawing a paycheck, worrying about financial ruin is completely self-defeating. Spend your energy constructively, working the math in a deliberate way and letting the results dictate your path ' not your fear.
Once I 'got' this wisdom, I scratched out budgets like a miser obsessed. The results weren't ideal, but they weren't devastating either. After chopping expenses and eliminating debt, my savings would support me for 11 months. I wanted a minimum of 24 months of cushion to cover a ramp up period to get my coaching business off the ground. Closing the gap meant staying put until next year's bonus was paid -' 10 months away! This placed my escape squarely at 20 months from start to finish, longer than I had anticipated, but at least I had a solid target in my gun site. My exit had become a question of 'when' not 'if'.
Stalker #4: The Mush Factor. Lack of confidence is the subtlest form of exit sabotage, but just as lethal as its three stalker-friends. It creeps up, scores, and then evaporates like soft mist. Just when you're ready to take on the world, it attacks again, melting you into a puddle of doubts about your ability to even come close to career change.
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When you feel vulnerable, think about the bounty you've gained from your corporate run -' sharp-as-a-tack analytical skills, business acumen, process know-how, leadership, and the solid technical expertise -' law, accounting, finance, organizational and human development, marketing, sales ' the list is as long and as rich as Rapunzel's hair. These attributes fueled your corporate career; they will do no less for you now.
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That said, perfect confidence all the time is not realistic either. Emotional wobbles go with the territory. To steady yourself, remember that your journey is one of choice, not force. You control it from beginning to end '- the pace, how it unfolds and when. When the level of uncertainty feels too great, accept it. It will pass. When it does, pick up the reins again. Work with your flow of energy, not against it. Before you know it, you will have conceived a plan and a financial strategy that will feed your confidence -- not suck it dry.
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Mastering your fate means rolling up your oxford sleeves and plowing through lots of rocky terrain. It means caging the four stalkers into submission -- once, twice '- as often as it takes to open the space for thoughtful career-change work. In fact, get to know these stalkers well. Even thank them for their guidance -- and remind them that you're the boss now -- and you're getting ready to take on the decisions around your future.
Career JunctionCareer Junction Ireadabout brings you career articles. If you are looking for career information, then ..... About the Author Patricia Soldati is a former President & COO of a national finance organization who re-invented her working life in 1999. Now, as a career fulfillment specialist, she guides unhappy corporate professionals into meaningful work -- both inside an outside the corporate walls. For more about her approach or to receive 5 complimentary Career Change Lessons, visit www.purposefulwork.com
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